Sept. 26, 2025
Why Can’t I Stop This Sinful Behavior? (MINISODE)
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Have you ever wondered why certain sins are so hard to overcome? The answer might be simpler—and more uncomfortable—than we want to admit.
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00:00 - Reflecting on Cassie Bellino's story
00:41 - Sexual purity and vulnerable prayer
01:58 - Being honest about loving our sin
03:30 - Call to action and final thoughts
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Hey friends, welcome back to another mini-sode.
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What did you think of this episode I did with Cassie and Bellino.
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I love her candor, her openness and honesty about the struggles that she had coming to faith.
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How many of us can relate with that?
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I know I can.
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That's why I said in the beginning of the episode I did with her that I just felt simpatic.
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Did with her that I just felt simpatico with her.
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I just felt like we were the same.
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I get what she was saying.
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I have been there.
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I have felt confused.
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I have wondered why this?
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Why should I be doing this?
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Why shouldn't I be doing this?
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Did you enjoy hearing the part where she was discussing why she wanted to stop her sexual activity with her boyfriend?
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I thought that was a really profound moment.
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It was a very aha moment for me I don't know if it was for you where she was just vulnerable with God telling him how she felt.
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I love this, but I know you don't Help me to understand it from your perspective.
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That is such a powerful prayer that we can do, not just with sexual sin, but with alcohol, drugs, anger, gluttony, gossip.
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This was a very pivotal moment for me.
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It really changed my perspective on how to talk to God and how I can ask him for help, how I can come to him with my questions.
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He's not going to, as Cassian said, he's not going to burn you for it.
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His word actually asks us to come to him.
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If we have need for knowledge, if we want to know him deeper, if we want to know things, we need to ask him for that knowledge.
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So she just came humbly and asked for the knowledge of why I shouldn't be doing this thing and please show me how to hate it, the way that you do Such a humble and honest prayer that we all can do in our lives.
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I enjoyed the conversation.
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I hope you did too.
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If you haven't listened to it yet, make sure you go back and listen to it.
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It is a great conversation.
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Also, check out her podcast.
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Biblically Speaking, she does have some great guests and it's so full of knowledge that maybe you didn't even know about or didn't know that you wanted to know about.
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So definitely check out her podcast Before we go.
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My question for you is like Kazian, what in your life do you need to have that kind of surrender to?
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It's a question that I'm still having to wrestle with, even to this day.
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I have made great strides in my anger, especially since having her on and trying to implement this kind of attitude in my prayer life, but I know there's still things that I could work on that I will work on, that I have to work on.
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So what is yours, what is God telling you right now?
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You need to stop doing this and you're having such a hard time stopping it because it feels so good.
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You enjoy it.
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What is that?
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Whatever it is, be honest and be vulnerable with God and tell him.
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Tell him the truth.
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Like Cassian said in the episode, she loved her sin.
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We have to be open and honest.
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We love our sin, otherwise we would not be doing it still.
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Am I right?
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You know I'm right.
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So we have to be honest and we have to tell God that, because he already knows.
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But once we admit it, then we can start working on it, because that's what you do when you have an addiction, when you have a problem you call it out and that makes it real in your mind and then you can do something about it.
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So be real with God today.
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He already knows.
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So you just need to be real with him and tell him I like this.
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I know you don't Help me to hate it as much as you do and show me why you don't like it.
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That is a heart posture we all need in everyday life.
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Thanks for listening.
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I hope you have a wonderful week.
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God bless.
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